You work hard at the life you’ve created, but sometimes, in the quiet moments, it can feel like something’s missing…
Your alarm goes off on your bedside table… You roll over & switch it off. You lay there for a moment, in silence, while you slowly open your eyes and listen to the voice in your head saying “Here we go again…”
What is today going to bring? You are pretty happy with how things are going, but you feel a coat of heaviness laying over you… you’re not quite 100% there yet – but you’re not sure how to fix it either.
You can’t wait for the day to wake up feeling light… not faking it, but really feeling it. That real light happiness that everyone talks about.
Then you laugh to yourself as daydreaming is the closest thing you have to that right now. You look up at the ceiling and wonder what would happen if you could focus and only put energy into what you loved… instead of everything else like your to-do list, pleasing your boss, running your business, looking after the kids, keeping your man happy, making sure the dog is fed, remembering to call your girlfriends back and visiting your parents on the weekend.
I created the 42 Daily Questions To Self program because I believe that from an early age girls are taught to put everyone else first, to stay small, whether it be obviously or subtly. We then grow up, and for most of us, we continue in this pattern putting everyone else’s needs before our own.
…and even worse, many women don’t even notice they’re doing it, as it has become second nature.
My FREE Program invites you to look within and discover and remind yourself what it is that makes us feel good, what it is that inspires you, what it is that brings YOU joy.
How else will you be able to live the life of your dreams if you don’t know what you want or how you want to feel…
How It Works & What You Receive…
This program has been created to focus on Your Pleasure.
It will assist you to take back responsibility for our own Pleasure and to be totally committed to it.
The purpose, plan, dream and vision for this gift to you is to help you really get it… and I mean get it through every cell of your body that Pleasure is actually the core purposes in life. To embody your Pleasure, to prioritise it and focus on it is all we need to do and the rest will flow.
Once you sign up you well receive the following from me with so much love:
#1 Daily Emails. For 42 Days you will receive an email with a question to answer. This email will prompt you to bring ritual and make time to focus on your pleasure.
#2 Group Support. You are not alone! If you need accountability, would like to connect with others who are also working through the program, and you would like to connect with me during your journey – I have a Facebook support group The Pleasure Proposition for you to join!
I found this exercise of 42 questions very beneficial in many ways! I was also surprised and not so at what came up for me by simply reading the questions.
Emotions were triggered, I gained more clarity and insight and after perusing the questions a second time I have decided to do this again to see where I am right now.
I highly recommend and thank you Chizelle I found this to be a tool I can refer to when I am feeling a bit out of whack, overwhelmed or needing some clarity.
I want you to remember those times when you experience the type of Pleasure where your body became alive.
Whether it be savouring your chocolate mousse as it explodes in your mouth or smelling an aroma especially created for you that transports you to your highest self. I want you to not only remember this, but to do whatever it takes to experience this daily and to make your decisions from this place.
I know when I’m fully embodying my Pleasure when I feel a throbbing sensation in my body. It comes once I have indulged my senses fully. Embodying this, I come into my business on a different level, I serve my clients better, I’m more fun to be around and my energy affects everyone and everything around me.
We’ve been told on so many levels that Pleasure is a luxury and from one woman to another… it’s not!
It is essential that your life, your relationships, your work, your health and your finances are all inclusive of pleasure.
The price that you can pay if you don’t focus on Pleasure is too high, not just for yourself but for those around you.
If you are not experiencing Pleasure in your life that is lit up, loving, and embraces the sensual and creative woman that you are – the result is… stress, tiredness and feeling cranky. You may feel like a rotten friend because you’re too caught up in the rubbish that you cancel on her, or turn up but don’t show up. Perhaps your clients get a watered down version of your work, or you even start to resent them. Or perhaps at your job, or as a mother, you have so much going on in your head and so much ‘to do’ that no one experiences the best of you… not even those you love the most.
It’s time to understand that the price of perfume, a beautiful meal, or time spent at a Day Spa is SO much less than the price you will pay if you’re unable to experience deep Pleasure from within on a daily basis.
This type of pleasure is priceless.
Chizelle has a unique perspective on joy, and has a profound understanding of living for pleasure. All her questions are centered around fun – on the surface looks like a non-invasive question, but become more profound as you explore it in more detail. I enjoyed answering the daily questions and got to know myself a bit more.
Women need women.
We thrive once we allow ourselves the vulnerability of showing up, sharing ourselves supporting each other and generally reminding each other just how fabulous we all are.
I wanted to have a group of women that would encourage and support us all to embrace our divineness, our femininity and our greatness – yes I said it, our greatness, but that’s not the way I experienced life.
I never had many girlfriends growing up, I tended to have male friends, they seemed less complicated, more accepting, definitely less drama than what I had experienced with girls.
As much as I loved my male friends though, something was missing.
I couldn’t put my finger on it but there was a emptiness in my life that I just couldn’t fill, a feeling that something was missing, no matter how great things were.
Then I found myself a Mentor who taught me about the Power of Women coming together, she taught me to be vulnerable and safe, she shared a circle of women with me who showed me such kindness, such generosity, such raw vulnerability and such love that all at once I KNEW what I needed to do – I needed to create and empower women to create more circles of women.
With that Circle of Women around me, my whole life improved, my marriage, my business, being a mama, it all shifted. When we have a circle of women around us that show up and shine, WE show up and shine.
And through that we give even more women permission to show up and shine.
The ripple effect reaches so much further than you will ever know.
I created this for me as much as for you.
I wanted to create a space to ONLY share our greatness, and to hold each other in our highest esteem.
I want to hear YOU boast about yourself, I want to hear YOU own your fabulousness.
Know how to make the best raw vegan cheesecake in the world?
Tell me about it.
Rocking motherhood with your negotiation skills?
Having mind-blowing sex with your partner?
Bring it on!
I want to know what YOU love about yourself.
Do you love your bum and the way it wiggles when you walk?
Fall in love with your eyes when you allow yourself to fall into them?
Love that you’re always available when a friend calls?
I want you on my team!
The more you share, the more you show up, the more you prioritise YOUR pleasure, the more permission you give to the rest of us to love and adore ourselves, and YOU!
Let us love you, let us celebrate you, let us encourage, inspire and call to our highest selves through the bonds of Sisterhood.
Commit to enhancing your Pleasure by joining my
FREE 6 Week Program today!